LifeChanger of the Year Nominee Profile

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Ashley Palmer

Position: Universal Preschool Head Teacher
School: The Suffolk Y JCC Early Learning Center
School District: Commack Schools
City, State: Commack, NY

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Ashley Palmer was nominated by a parent of a student, Jennifer Hagemann. 

"Miss Ashley made an extraordinary impact on my daughter, Kayla, during one of the most important developmental years of her life. As her Pre-K teacher, she provided far more than academic instruction. She helped build Kayla's confidence, independence, and social skills, laying the foundation for her future success. Kayla was a 'COVID baby' and had limited experience in daycare or structured classroom settings. Because I worked remotely during the pandemic, much of her early childhood was spent at home with family. Entering Pre-K was a significant transition, and she initially struggled emotionally with being around unfamiliar adults and with learning to interact with a large group of peers. Miss Ashley met these challenges with patience, understanding, and genuine compassion," said Hagemann.

"Through her nurturing approach, Miss Ashley created a classroom environment where children felt safe, supported, and encouraged to grow. She taught the curriculum in fun, engaging, and stimulating ways that made learning exciting. She encouraged Kayla to step outside of her comfort zone, try new arts and crafts projects, explore her creativity, and build friendships with classmates. As Kayla's confidence grew, so did her willingness to participate, learn, and connect with others. Miss Ashley also demonstrated exceptional dedication to her students' academic development. She worked closely with Kayla on important foundational skills, including learning her full address, memorizing my phone number, improving her handwriting, and mastering the alphabet well before the end of the school year. Her commitment to ensuring each child reached important milestones reflected her professionalism and excellence as an educator," said Hagemann.

Beyond her classroom, Ms. Palmer contributes to the school's atmosphere by fostering a culture of kindness, inclusion, and encouragement. She leads by example, showing students how to treat one another with respect while fostering a sense of belonging for every child. Her leadership is evident, not only in the confidence she inspires in her students, but in the experiences she works tirelessly to create for them.

One example that stands out is her dedication to organizing a Pre-K prom for her students. After advocating for the event for several years, she finally brought it to life. The children had an incredible time celebrating together, and it became a cherished memory for so many families.

"More than a year later, my daughter still talks about that special night with excitement and joy. Ms. Palmer understands that creating meaningful childhood memories is just as important as teaching academic skills, and she went above and beyond to give her students an experience they would never forget," said Hagemann.

"What stands out most about Miss Ashley is her unwavering commitment to creating a nurturing environment where children feel valued and capable. She consistently demonstrates the highest moral and ethical standards through her kindness, patience, and dedication to every student entrusted to her care. By the end of the school year, Kayla's transformation was remarkable. The little girl who had once struggled with separation and social interaction proudly stood on stage before a crowd to sing and perform at the end-of-year ceremony. She had also formed friendships, embraced new experiences, and developed the confidence to participate fully in school life," said Hagemann.

"These milestones did not happen by chance. They were the result of Miss Ashley's patience, encouragement, and unwavering belief in her students. Miss Ashley changed my daughter's life during a critical stage of development, and the skills, confidence, and love of learning she instilled continue to benefit Kayla today. From helping her learn foundational academic skills to creating unforgettable experiences like the Pre-K prom, Miss Ashley demonstrated the qualities of a true LifeChanger. She is exceptionally deserving of this award," said Hagemann. 

Comments (34)

Brandy Posted 17 days ago

Miss Ashley made a challenging year one of our best ever! Not only was my son who was in her class happy to see her every day, but his siblings also love her! Miss Ashley is the epitome of a life changer!

Joy Kalfin (MeMa) Posted 27 days ago

Miss Ashley is one of a kind! My both grandsons had Miss Ashley as their Teacher. She currently teaches one of them today and he is very sad to leave. She’s kind warm, and caring to all the children. My grandson has excelled tremendously in her class from motor skills, to academic skills and maturity and beyond. I hear this from all the parents and grandparents at pick up. She is amazing and her skills shine through the children! She truly deserves this honor.

Elissa and Alex Lewin Posted 29 days ago

Miss Ashley is nothing short of a gem! Our daughter has been in her in class this year for Pre-K and has had the most incredible year! She has grown by leaps and bounds and it’s all thanks to Miss Ashley for creating the most engaging, interactive, meaningful, and creative learning experiences! Not only has she thrived academically but she has made incredible strides with her social emotional and interpersonal skills, literacy skills, physical development, and has instilled a sense of confidence and independence that she certainly would not have achieved without Miss Ashley’s support. We are absolutely thrilled with her progress and know it’s all thanks to Miss Ashley. She is truly a magnificent, creative, talented and dynamic educator whose love of teaching shines through every project, event and special day she coordinates. There is no one more deserving of this recognition!!!

Sheree Posted 30 days ago

What can can i say, Ashley is one of a kind. Wonderful, intelligent, hardworking and kind..…smile

Tara Hay Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley was an amazing teacher to my son Austin. He was very timid his first week and Miss Ashley helped him feel comfortable and welcome. Additionally, Austin learned so much throughout the year which prepared him tremendously for Kindergarten. I am so thankful Austin had such a wonderful Pre-K teacher!

Stephanie C Posted 1 months ago

Ashley Palmer is so deserving of this honor! She is a dedicated educator and she pours all of herself into guiding her students.

Cynthia Posted 1 months ago

You go girl, you are so deserving of this. All my love & luck to you.

Rosemarie Posted 1 months ago

Ashley is my cousin and my youngest son's godmother. She is the sweetest and most caring and genuine person. She works so hard for her and her son. I'm so proud of the wonderful woman and mother she has become.I've known Ashley since the day she was born and she has always had a love for kids and a passion for teaching and helping everyone around her. She pours her heart and soul into everything she does and if anyone deserves this award, it's Ashley! We love you Pina!

Alyssa W Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley is an outstanding teacher and is more than deserving of this award. It has been a privilege to be her assistant teacher this year. I have learned so much this year working with her in her classroom. She creates such a safe, organized, and nurturing classroom for all of her students to grow and learn. The dedication, love for her students, and teaching is truly admirable.

Adam and Michelle Klein Posted 1 months ago

Ashley has been an incredible teacher for our daughter this year. She brings such a rare combination of energy, organization, creativity, and care to the classroom every day. It is clear how much thought she puts into making school both fun and meaningful for the kids. Our daughter has grown so much this year, and we truly credit Ashley with helping support that development. She creates an environment where the children feel excited to learn, confident to participate, and genuinely cared for. What stands out most is the way Ashley goes above and beyond in all the little details that make such a big difference. Whether it is creating special birthday crowns, organizing fun classroom traditions, sending home a pretend class pet for the kids to care for, planning celebrations, or even ironing each child’s name onto custom field day shirts early in the morning, she consistently shows how invested she is in making the children feel special. Ashley is the kind of teacher who leaves a lasting impact. We are so grateful our daughter had the chance to be in her class this year, and we cannot think of anyone more deserving of this recognition.

Jen Miller Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley is such a loving teacher and my Grandson has been so happy being her class this year. He has learned and grown so much!

Stacey Mencher Posted 1 months ago

Ms. Ashley is amazing. She was my son’s Pre-K teacher and I couldn’t have asked for a better one. She is kind, nurturing, attentive, and just overall amazing. You can tell that she loves her job and wants all her kids to succeed. She prepared my son for Kindergarten and while he enjoys it, he misses her and her class. She created lasting memories that we will cherish forever.

Elaine G. Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley is wonderful at what she does and has helped my grandson learn so much this year. She truly loves what she does and has a unique way of teaching.

Maguire Trimarchi Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley is truly deserving of this honor! She comes to work everyday with patience, kindness and a love for what she does. She understands each child and figures out what makes them shine. She makes sure everyone is included and welcomed. My son adores her and has grown by leaps and bounds this last year with her guidance. We love Miss Ashley!

Robin Spencer Posted 1 months ago

Wonderful honor, Ashley, and very well-deserved! Congratulations! - Robin

Paula Titolo Posted 1 months ago

Ashleigh truly is one of the best teachers I’ve come across. She is caring and motivated always wanting to install a great sense of learning into our students.!

Tate Pumilia Posted 1 months ago

Ms. Ashely was my pre k teacher. She taught me about symmetry, how to read, and to love learning. Shes the best!

Tiana Baker Posted 1 months ago

We love Miss Ashley so much! She is amazing!!

Julie Posted 1 months ago

I have been working with Ms. Ashley for almost 4 years now. She has been a great mentor, coworker, and friend. She is so passionate and truly loves helping her students grow and become the best they can be.

Debbie Posted 1 months ago

Very well deserved. Ashley is an amazing teacher and role model. ??????

Meredith Foraker Posted 1 months ago

Ms. Ashley has been a part of my child’s educational journey starting at the age of 3 months old! My daughter is now 3 1/2 years old and still loves seeing Ms. Ashley bright and early each morning. She is a comforting presence throughout the building and truly gets to know students individually. She is a huge asset to the SJYCC community.

Barbara Heinz Posted 1 months ago

Ashley is a remarkable teacher. Goes out of her way to make it the best class to thrive and have fun at the same time.

Samantha K Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley has made such a lasting impact on our daughter this year. Her kindness, patience, and genuine care have helped create a classroom where children feel loved, supported, and excited to learn. The bond she built with our daughter is so special, my daughter looks forward to seeing her every day and always wants one last hug before leaving. We are so thankful for the positive influence she has had and for the love and encouragement she gives to all of her students. She is truly a life changer!!

Leah Buffalino Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley is more than deserving of this honor! She’s not only a wonderful teacher but an amazing human. She’s has taught, and currently teachers both of my kids! I could not ask for a more caring, kind and compassionate person to leave my kids with daily. She goes above and beyond and we are so grateful to have her on our lives! My children have thrived and continue to thrive in her classroom. We love having Miss Ashley!

Halle Z Posted 1 months ago

So incredibly well deserved! Ashley is an AMAZING teacher. She cares deeply for her students!!

Leah Buffalino Posted 1 months ago

I could not have said this better myself. Both my children have had, and currently have Miss Ashley. She is an incredible teacher and human. Both of my children thrived, and are thriving in her classroom. She is caring, compassionate, nurturing and fosters a learning environment where all children feel seen. She is wonderful! We cannot say enough great things about her. She is more than deserving of this honor! Thank you for all you do and have done, Miss Ashley!

Melissa Kressel Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley has been such a wonderful teacher and positive influence in my son’s academic and social life this current school year. She cares about her students very much and spends special time with the kids to help me flourish and be completely prepared for kindergarten!

Lindsay Kirby Posted 1 months ago

Ms. Ashley is a fantastic individual that cares deeply about her students. Teacher to teacher, I feel comfortable with my son in her charge. We have watched him blossom and get ready for kindergarten in the most amazing way. Ms. Ashley is talented and should be recognized as so! While we are excited for the next step in Milo’s education, we are truly sad to leave this class. Best of luck, as you deserve this award!

Mike Citron Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley has been the best teacher for my daughter Evelyn. She is exactly the type of teacher Evie needed when going to UPK. Miss Ashley set up a classroom environment where the students are constantly involved in hands on activities and learning from experience. She has helped my daughter’s confidence so much and helped make her more independent when she needed it most. She genuinely cares for everyone in her classroom and the whole building too. She emphasizes kindness, listening, and respect and the kids all end up better for it when the year is done. I cannot recommend her enough.

Bunny Posted 1 months ago

After being with Ashley for the past three years, I can vouch for the fact that she is deserving of this award. she is an exceptional teacher and handles all the children, as if they’re her own. Her class management is above and beyond reproach.

Danielle Goggin Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley is an incredible teacher, and just an all-around amazing person. She has taught all three of my children, and has remained in contact over the years, creating connections that will last a lifetime. Miss Ashley’s care goes beyond the classroom, she cares for her students and their families, as if they were her own family. Her knowledge of child development and academics provide her students, the opportunity to grow to their fullest potential during such integral years. As an educator myself, I can’t think of anybody more deserving of this award than Miss Ashley.

Laine Posted 1 months ago

Miss Ashley was absolutely wonderful in helping my daughter feel safe, happy and ready for Kindergarten! We are so happy to have had her and she deserves recognition for who she is and how she teaches!

Kim Posted 2 months ago

This letter 100% describes Miss Ashley! She absolutely deserves this award. She loves and treats each of her students as if they were her own child!

Rory Pumilia Posted 2 months ago

Ms. Ashley is the most thoughtful, loving, considerate teacher. Both of my kids loved being in her class. She deserves every recognition possible!